by Charles Wm. Skillas, PhD, DD, BCH, CI, FNGH,
men and many women come to me complaining of being
depressed and lonely as their lives are empty, because
they have no significant other to share
it with. They believe their happiness depends on someone
else sharing their lives and if only this wonderful
someone was with them, they would be fulfilled
this is not true. Our happiness never depends on others.
This dependency feeling reflects our security needs.
Within the need for security is the fear of poverty,
of old age, of ill health, of criticism, and the fear
of death. So, loneliness depression is really related
to security. In hypnosis we can strengthen the ego by
reprogramming the subconscious, but it doesnt
work well unless the person is clear of all Negative
Forcing Functions (Subconscious Negative Energy Sources)
because the old dependency programs are constantly energized
by the Sources and new independence programs are overridden.
had a case involving a very depressed young woman of
40 who wanted to die because she couldnt find
a man to share her life. I released the Negative Sources
in her including entities, present and past life issues,
and internal conflicts and then tried ego strength reprogramming,
with some success. She greatly improved on the issues
stemming from her released Negative Sources, but she
was still unhappy being alone.
she was now clear, I was able to get her High Self to
provide visions of previous lifetimes that affected
her loneliness issue. In one past life, she lived happily
in Mediterranean Crete. Her father married her off to
a Northern Lord, requiring her to move to a cold country
where the people were unfriendly and her husband mostly
ignored her. She was unhappy. After he died, she moved
back to beautiful Crete and was happy for the rest of
her life living among friendly people, developing many
friends and engaging in intellectual stimulation and
work. In a 2nd past life, she was the daughter of a
tyrant who treated both she and her mother with contempt
and cruelty. She finally married to get away from her
father, only to find her husband was like him. He finally
died and she moved to a pleasant climate with friendly
people and developed relationships and work, which made
wise visions provided by her High Self clicked within
causing her to understand that just being married didnt
actually, here it caused unhappiness.
Her happiness came by taking charge of her life, living
where she liked and engaging in satisfying relationships
and work. This deep perception changed her life and
she is now happy with just herself.