Love Release Problems

By Charles Wm. Skillas, PhD, DD, BCH, CI, FNGH, MCCHt

Two people fall in love - it starts out great for them and then for one reason or another one or both of the partners detaches or breaks it off. One or both of the partners can't seem to get the other person out of their mind and behaves irrationally in this area of their lives, although they may seem quite sane otherwise. Even in their dreams as well as in their waking moments, they are thinking of the other person to the point where they are ruining their own life. This happens a lot and I have helped many people with this kind of problem for many years. So, what causes this persistence of one person's energy in the life of the other person and causes so much turmoil and grief? The answer, in almost all cases is the transfer of soul-mind-fragments (SMF) from one person to the other.

The mind has a survival coping mechanism called "disassociation" which it uses to protect ones sanity if one is subject to a traumatic occurrence, which the mind cannot handle. This survival mechanism is a very primitive part of us and can cause problems for many people later in life. The disassociation creates a sub-personality, frozen in time at the age when the disassociation trauma occurred and stuffs the trauma energy, which created it into the sub-personality, submerges the sub-personality into the subconscious mind and the conscious mind is unaware of it.

This disassociated sub-personality is called a Soul-Mind Fragment (SMF). In the psychiatric and psychological worlds, soul-mind fragments are often called "ego states". The trauma energy in the SMF is still affecting the person, but he doesn't consciously know it is there. A lot of "free floating anxiety" is caused by these phenomena. Children tend to disassociate much more often than adolescents or adults because traumatic happenings that might scare or sadden a child might not deeply affect an older person because of his experience. That is why we tend to find many more "inner children" than we do "inner adolescents" or "inner adults" when we search for soul-mind fragments.

Sometimes, the SMF can be transferred to another person. When it does, it brings the energy within the SMF to the other person. The other person now has to deal with the energy within the SMF just as though it were his own energy. The person who lost the SMF is now deprecated because part of his soul is missing and this can cause illness. Native American Shamans go into a vision quest trance and go out into the existence planes and retrieve the SMF, heal it and then return it to the person who lost it and the Indian gets well. This is called soul retrieval.

The competent hypnotherapist must find the foreign SMF within his client, disengage it, heal it and send it back along the silver cord, which connects it to the person who lost the fragment. The client is now free of the energy of the foreign SMF and the person who lost the SMF is also healed because he receives back the part of his soul, which was missing less the energy, which created it. You never want to send a SMF back to the person who lost it without first healing it by releasing the trauma energy within that created it.

You can possess the SMF of dead people as well as alive people. The SMF is formed and transferred when the person was alive, but the person may die and the client can still have it attached to him. When we release the SMF of a dead person, we heal it and send it back to his deprecated soul on the astral level and his soul now becomes complete. This action frequently will release earthbound spirits who may be haunting people or places.

Soul-mind fragment entities are easily passed between people engaging in sexual intercourse. The openness and surrender of the sex act can lower the Guardian Chi protective system so these SMF's can easily attach to you… and you are thereafter irrevocably tied to the other person whether you want to be or not. This is why so many divorced people are still tied to their former spouses and people in a sexual relationship cannot get rid of their former lover once they are separated. The SMF is an entity, just like a demon or earthbound spirit. If you engage in sex with a person who has the SMF of his previous sex partner still attached to him, you can even pick up the SMF of the previous partner and all the negativity that goes with it.

Soul-mind fragments, like all foreign energies (entities) are a negative forcing function just like repressed memories of this life, trauma from past lives, unresolved internal conflicts, biological carry-overs from ancestors and the attachment of other foreign energies. All negative forcing functions distort the body's energy field and block the flow of chi to the cell communities of the body causing illness in body and/or mind. Negative forcing functions also install their negative programs on the subconscious mind's virtual hard drive and then energetically support the negative programs. The SMF is a foreign energy, and like all foreign energies, distorts the body's energy field, and blocks the flow of life-giving chi energy needed by the body's cell communities for health.

The removal and release of the trauma energy in any SMF is of paramount importance to achieving mental, emotional, physical and spiritual health. If your hypnotherapist neglects this vital negative forcing function, you will not be healed, no matter what else he does.

So, if you are still "experiencing" your former partner and you want to be done with the partner, it is probably because the SMF of one or both of the partners are attached to the other partner. I know how to find and remove SMF's and I do it regularly for people who are caught in this situation. It is very common.


This article is intended for general informational purposes
and does not provide medical, psychological, or other professional advice.


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